tring tring !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tring tring !!!!! it was Sunday i was sleeping (relaxing) after good month end.i had picked up call thought it would be related to my office and all..But call was from life.
Life was calling me......
Life is a big thing which most of us ignore.We are too busy in future then our present .Being a carrier focus human we all are focus on our future and many time we missed our present life.We run behind earning money by paying our life and forget to enjoy same.Your are getting money by paying priceless thing called TIME.
That day life was given me list of what i have missed and what i have earned by running behind dreams.
Dreams are unlimited but life is limited.If you know rule of game called life then you will be winner.
life was telling me about my school days,college days ,childhood which now i could not go back and enjoy.Those days with friends having fun on tea tapri,snack center,in college campus,college bunking days;everything is past now.Even if i decide i could not go back and enjoy;that time question was in my mind that carrier focus human is good or bad? Answer was its not good or bad but thing has to do at rite time and at rite age.
It was my mistake to start working too early around at age of 19 when i could have enjoyed my college life, wooo chai kii tapri,wooo 1st day 1st show film,woooo college campus,woooo bunking class,galli cricket, etc etc.Today i am at good position in my carrier life; i feel proud that i have got this position at early age but at what price.answer is at price of my collegehood days which i could enjoyed early.
Life was discussing with me on what i am missing which i could enjoyed .That time i felt that We all are busy and could not get 5 min to think what we have missed today which we could have do it for ourself.Every day i decide to call my old friends/relative,take my daughter out in zoo or garden (other than sunday),take my family for dinner(which i do but many time i don't get much time ).But what ever i planed in morning i could not stick to it due to carrier.I think i am doing wrong i am more focus on carrier than my life.I get more tension if i could not complete any task which is given by my BOSS and feel proud if complete same before time by sacrificing my personal life.But now i am feeling it was mistake i am feeling proud on price of my daughter/family happiness.I think all of us should note that we would be retire from office life at the age of 60 but we will not retire from life at age of 60.
Its happned with all of us that we site in office and complete our pending work that time you will call your family and informed that you could be late due to office work.But i dont know how many of us called our BOSS and informed that boss let me enjoy today,my daughter want to go out so i could not come to office please cancel todays important meeting. can you Do this ? i think most of will say no....Because we are so focused on future that we missed present and instead of canceling meeting we ask our wife or family member to take daughter out and attend meeting on cost of daughter's happiness.Now i am realizing that my daughter is 2 year old if i could not enjoy her childhood then i will miss something which i am not going to get back to me in future.I may achieve business target next month,next year but i cant enjoy her same childhood next year.
There was so many other thing which life asked me to enjoyed at given time and warn me that if i missed then i am not going to get back again.
I was wake up........ it was dream but that dream help me to understand what i have missed and what i can do it better for my LIFE.
From that day i start feeling that life keep us calling to enjoy our present which may not come again but we ignore that call and always focus on our future.That day i have decided,i will give time for everything there is something other than carrier to focus.We have to complete/Enjoy task at rite time and at rite age not by running behind it.
I think we should know how to balance and enjoy our day.Life is not reality show where you will voteout and again you may get chance to join show in callback episode.Once it gone then gone no call back so please take 5 min to check if there is any missed call from life.When ever you wake up in morning take 5 min to think about how you will make today beautiful by doing something Hatke (new),by giving more time to family and friends, and also balance your profession .and when you go on bed every night just make list of what you have missed today which could be help to charge up your life and try to complete that next day .
Life is calling don't miss that call..............